Beyond Mirimiri – My Journey, Identity and Advocacy

My journey has extended beyond mirimiri and has included experiences, relationships and advocacy that have shaped my understanding of people, identity, acceptance and social justice.

As a takatāpui person, I understand the importance of having spaces where people can feel seen, respected and accepted for who they are.

My experiences have strengthened my belief that nobody should have to hide parts of themselves or feel judged because of their identity, circumstances or life experiences.

I have also been involved in sex work and sex worker advocacy. This has been an important part of my life and has given me insight into the challenges people can experience when facing stigma, discrimination and misunderstanding.

My advocacy has included serving on the board of the Aotearoa Sex Workers' Collective and then also undertaking the role of Kaiwhakarae.

These experiences have reinforced the importance of listening to people's voices, respecting their autonomy and recognising their mana.

I believe that everyone deserves dignity, compassion and the freedom to be themselves.

These values are carried into my mirimiri mahi.

I don't believe in making assumptions about people or their stories. I believe in creating spaces where people can arrive as they are, without needing to explain or defend themselves.

For me, this is part of healing too.

Connection. Acceptance. Respect. Manaakitanga.

These are values I endeavour to carry into all aspects of my life and mahi.